(DISCLAIMER: None of the following individuals, Sammy Adebiyi, Ed Stetzer or Carlos Whittaker have endorsed this post or anything in it. I am merely sharing some of the posts that I've recently enjoyed reading.)
No wait! I meant, APOLOGIES all around! Dang! I never understood why those two words can mean something so different and yet sound so similar.
No wait! I meant, APOLOGIES all around! Dang! I never understood why those two words can mean something so different and yet sound so similar.
I do think though, that if we sprinkled our apologetics with a few apologies, people might be interested in our Gospel.
SAMMY WROTE.
SAMMY WROTE.
Recently, Sammy Adebiyi wrote an article for Prodigal Magazine which chronicles his experience of repentance toward the LGBT community. Please, please, please read it HERE.
After reading his article, I posted a comment that included this statement:
"I'm really glad that you took the public stance you did Sammy. I think more people with public platforms should do what you did."
Then it occurred to me. Why can't we? Why can't Christians who have a public platform that feel the same way Sammy feels, the same way I feel, say "Sorry"? And not just at random, but on the same day. I mean if Christians can organize an impromptu eat in at Chick-Fil-A, then why can't those of us who felt a little nauseous on that day take a day to express how we feel?
A VOICE.
We need a voice. Not just one voice, but many voices. Brave voices. Loving voices. Gentle voices. Loud voices. Voices who sound a whole lot like Jesus and who will make a pact to post on their Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, YouTube, Blogs, Google+, Bumper Sticker, Lapel Button, or whatever, on Tuesday, June 25th 2013:
I'M SORRY
ED WROTE.
I read an article on Ed Stetzer's blog yesterday and it really brought clarity to the issue for me (please read it HERE). There is no way to fully reconcile two such polar opposite points of view, BUT something must be done and it must be done soon.
As Christians, we serve a God that always sacrifices first, loves first, forgives first, gives first; so, in light of this example, we must waive the white flag of humility first.
I read an article on Ed Stetzer's blog yesterday and it really brought clarity to the issue for me (please read it HERE). There is no way to fully reconcile two such polar opposite points of view, BUT something must be done and it must be done soon.
As Christians, we serve a God that always sacrifices first, loves first, forgives first, gives first; so, in light of this example, we must waive the white flag of humility first.
LOS WROTE.
I was scanning my twitter feed late last night and @loswhit tweeted he would be posting an interview with a homosexual Christian today. My heart leaped. I was so excited and scared to hear what he or she would have to say. I believe if you read it, which I'm kind of insisting you do, (read that HERE) it will really cement the truth of my cause. At one point in the interview, after being asked to give advice to Christians, she said:
"Listen to them and love them gently. Even acknowledge and apologize for how the Christian community has wounded them."
There it is. Simple as the sky is blue and as difficult too. We can't ignore this any longer. We must all become Jesus and jump into the middle of the mob and demand of ourselves and each other “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”
Then, we must drop our stones.
DROPPING OUR WEAPONS ≠ TWISTING THE WORD OF GOD
But you know what does, not loving people. We twist the truth of the Gospel when we tell a single person that Jesus doesn't love them just as they are, but we also twist the truth of the Gospel if we would suggest that Jesus ever leaves us just as we are, but that is a discussion for a different day.
Today? Today, we, Christians, just need to apologize and not just to the LGBT community, but to anyone that ever felt the searing stares of rejection as they walked into a church service. Anyone who was ever told to go and get their life together BEFORE they could come into the presence of Jesus. Anyone who felt like they had to LIE about who they were just to fit in with some "ideal" Christian community we tried so hard to sell everyone. Anyone who we ever convinced that Jesus was a big ol' judgmental unforgiving guy like the rest of us.
He's not. And before the big day of Apologies rolls out, I must say I'm sorry.
For any moment that I EVER made anyone feel less than worthy of love. We are all in the same boat. We need Jesus. And the GLORIOUS thing about HIM is that He is available to all of us, just as we are.
Join me, won't you?
Please, please, please, I BEG you to:
1) Read the articles I posted. They are wonderful resources. If you have time, read other articles these great men have posted.
2) Comment below if you're in. (PLEASE BE IN!)
3) Share the plan! If you're reading this, you likely have a Twitter, a Facebook, a Pinterest, an email account, or a piece of cardboard you can make a sign with. Let's get the word out.
If you are a Christian and you don't like this plan, then please do us all a favor and keep it to yourself. We are trying to build bridges and cross them, not burn them as quickly as we build them.
Jesus never met us halfway. So, let's build bridges... then cross them, to the Glory of Him Who loved us first.
Jesus never met us halfway. So, let's build bridges... then cross them, to the Glory of Him Who loved us first.
I'm sorry I'm in. Wait. I'm sorry. I'm in. Punctuation makes a difference.
ReplyDeleteYou better not mess this up for us Ernie. They'll throw out the whole apology for a grammatical error, you no.
DeleteI've been Sorry... I'm tired of being sorry. All I want to do is Help!
ReplyDeleteIt's time to bring this community together, no matter who we share our lives or bed with!
LOVE can not = SIN.
"HE>ME" <-Saw this the other day, on the back of a car... next to a Rainbow Flag. I got so happy I cried.
Peace.
I know what you've been experiencing lately. Glad you got my back!
DeleteI'm sorry! I'm so in! Love you! ~Evie_chic ~
ReplyDeleteLove you too! Thanks for reading my blog!
DeleteI have the best friends a girl could ask for!
I'm so in Brina. I have to reread this again and I can't wait to read the others. Thanks for leading us.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sammy! I hope people take me seriously and read your article. It was so, so good!
DeleteHope this catches on..I did not read the links in your post just yet but I promise I will!! I even gave myself a deadline :)
ReplyDeleteOh...I'm in of course!
Thanks for bringing this to my attention. Luv ya!
Thank you for jumping in! I'm hoping to get the word out on this.
DeleteI will most likely need to be reminded, but I'll be in :) lived reading you're blog brina! You go pursue that conviction God is giving you to head up!
ReplyDeleteAwesome! I'm going to try to put together an email list. Can you message me your email addres?
DeleteMine is brina_harwood@hotmail.com.
Thanks!
I'm in, but along with Julia I'm going to need a reminder. Love it.
ReplyDeleteGreat! I'm getting so excited! Message me your email address, so I can send out reminders and updates. Mine is brina_harwood@hotmail.com.
DeleteIm in. I just wrote a post on my blog relating to this, got the idea from here and i put a refernce Link.
ReplyDeleteThere is a link to the post: http://tomilolaakibo.blogspot.com/2013/01/im-sorry.html
Your post was beautiful! It had me tearing up! It embodies everything my heart is crying out. Thank you so much for jumping right in. Who knows... maybe we can be the change we want to see so badly.
DeleteWonderful Post! Opens my eyes to the depth of God's love! I'm IN!!
ReplyDeleteYay! I love hearing those words!
DeleteThank you for this, it really is a breath of fresh air. Speaking as a bi Christian, the amount of hatred I've seen from both sides of this argument is exhausting. It accomplishes nothing but division, which is most definitely NOT the work of God. It's only through bridge-building steps like this that healing and restoration can ever hope to take place. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to read it. I'm hoping that more people will find it a breath of fresh air, also.
DeleteI am "In" too Brina. I am not Gay, but I believe that our Lord loves all, regardless of their sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteYou may also want to read a rather long article I titled "Homosexuality and the Bible". It is research of this topic and I was totally stoked with what I discovered in my research.
The Church is not justified to reject same sex Christians at all. The article does show that. If you visit this Blog, do watch each Video also. They are of great importance. The link is here and thank God for you Brina.
http://okchrist.blogspot.ca/2012/01/homosexuality-and-bible-consider-rate.html
phil@OkChrist.com
IN!
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